First prepare the lemon kale. Cut the kale into shreds and add it to a large bowl. Squeeze the lemon juice over the kale and massage to break down the tough fibers. Season with salt and pepper to taste and set to the side.
To prepare the breadcrumbs, set your oven to 400F. Use a food processor to pulse the bread, hot honey and parsley together until breadcrumbs form. Sprinkle the crumbs on a parchment lined baking sheet and toast at 400F for 7-8 minutes or until they are a deep golden brown. Set aside.
Put a dutch oven or deep skillet on medium heat. Let it heat up for a few minutes before adding the olive oil.
Add the olive oil, garlic, tomato paste and red pepper flakes and cook for a few minutes or until the tomato paste has darkened in color.
Gradually pour in the milk, stirring constantly to combine with the tomato paste mixture. Continue to cook on medium until all the milk is in the pot.
Stir constantly and cook another 4-5 minutes on medium heat. You will see the sauce darken in color slightly and reduce, it will become a smooth red-orange color.
When the sauce is thick enough that you can run a spatula across the bottom of the pot and see the bottom, add in the beans and stir until they are completely covered in the sauce.
Plate with the beans first, then top with the kale and the bread crumbs. Add a drizzle of hot honey and serve!